We’ve all had it happen…
You find a woman physically attractive.
But there’s a problem…
She feels no attraction for you.
Is there anything you can do about it or are you out of luck?
Many experts will tell you that dating is a numbers game – if a woman isn’t attracted, cut your losses and move onto another girl.
Don’t do this. You are cutting yourself short.
Regardless of your physical appearance, you can use a few simple psychological tricks to generate attraction in her.
One of my favorite is called a “Tension Loop.” It was invented by the world famous seducer Swinggcat.
A Tension Loop is when you do something to create unresolved emotional tension inside a woman, increase it, release it by bringing closure to it, and then spark it all over again. This will keep her feeling the emotion of wanting and reaching and chasing for more of you.
Soap opera writers use Tension Loops to keep women enraptured in their fictitious dramas for months – sometimes years! The structure is always the same. The soap starts off with some form of conflict or drama, sparking unresolved emotional tension. Emotional tension increases up until the point of the climax. The tension, then, is released by bringing some resolution to the conflict or drama. And, finally, the show ends by sparking the tension all over again, compelling women to tune in for next week’s show.
Within the context of dating and flirting, this tension becomes sexualized.
My favorite Swinggcat Tension Loop is Push-Pull.
Push-Pull is whenever you emotionally Push a girl away from you and then emotionally Pull her back in.
Each Push sparks emotional tension and each Pull releases it.
Let’s look at an example of Push-Pull.
Flatter a female with, “You have the most gorgeous smile I’ve seen tonight.”
She’ll flash an even bigger smile and say, “Thank you.”
Then say, “Actually you have the fourth best smile I’ve seen tonight. I’m gonna call you number four.”
She will demand, “I want to be # 1.”
Respond with, “For being feisty I’m promoting you to number three.”
She may complain, “But I want to be number one.”
Warn, “If you keep complaining I’m demoting you back down to # 4.
If you want to get your hands on other Seduction Tips, I recommend visiting Swinggcat. The man is a world class expert on Seduction.